Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Beat the Summer Heat!

Set up an inflatable pool (and fill it with clean water, of course!), grill some barbecue and hotdogs (don't forget the marshmallows!), have some pizza delivered (ang lagay mga bata lang mag-e-enjoy?! hehe), grab some cold sodas and juice, unearth those swimsuits from last summer (sana lang kasya pa..hehe..), and you're all set to beat the summer heat right in the comfort of your home! Super hassle-free, inexpensive, and fun! :)


Friday, March 20, 2009

Children Learn What They Live

Let me share with you this beautiful poem I read over the internet, which I hope will serve as an inspiration to all parents out there raising their children to become "God-loving' individuals.

Children Learn What They Live
by Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph. D.

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.


Happy weekend, y'all! :)

Friday, March 13, 2009

The Preschool Hunt

This is what has kept me busy over the past few months – hunting, for preschool, that is. Sofia is now 4 years old and will start nursery this coming school year. I never imagined this whole school hunting thing would be so complicated, but I finally enrolled Sofia in my (and her) chosen school after considering several factors, which I have outlined below to somehow help parents out there who are also on the ‘hunt’:

Teaching Method

Traditional. Montessori. Progressive. Multiple Intelligences. Piagetian, etc. Yup, I went crazy over these teaching methods/programs or theories or whatever. Google each and choose the one that best suits your child’s needs. Each has its unique advantages, but the progressive approach and multiple intelligences theory appealed to me most.

Student-Teacher Ratio

Here’s what I learned: Schools which maintain a low student-teacher ratio (say, 10:1 or even lower) claim that each child’s unique needs are met because students are given individualized attention. On the other hand, schools which have an average of 25 students in a class with only 1 or 2 teacher/s claim that this volume of students is actually manageable and students are taught to be independent at an early age. Hmmn…

In either setting, make sure the teachers are patient, have good communication skills, are smart, and know how to handle kids, especially the ‘difficult’ ones.

Facilities

Here’s what we noticed in some schools we’ve visited during the ‘hunt’. Others have small or few facilities, say classrooms and just one (1) play area, but then maybe this is what your child would prefer for his/her first school - a school that has a ‘homey’ feel. One big school I visited has big playground, play laboratory, computer room (1:1), art room, and music room – you could imagine your child would be ‘moving’ a lot in this school and would have a lot of fun,…or your kid might get overwhelmed. Big school or little school, make sure your child will enjoy and have fun learning for at least 3 hours a day, 5 days a week – you wouldn’t want to make ‘learning’ boring for your child.

Curriculum

Math, Communication Arts, Computer Education, Music, Art, Play, etc. - depending on the teaching method/approach, these are the common subjects taught in preschools. When you enroll your child in a preschool and you intend to transfer him/her to your choice of big school for grade school, make sure the curriculum offered in the preschool is similar to that of your prospective big school. Better yet, some big schools already have their own preschools, so you might want to enroll them there already. One advantage of this is that your child usually does not have to take entrance exam anymore for grade school.

Tuition and other fees

I can’t believe that education now is so pricey, and I am only talking about preschool! For merely three (3) hours of classes a day, the tuition fees in preschools in Quezon City range from PhP40k to PhP80k! And don’t forget the 10% more or less annual increase! Nice! Well, whatever suits your budget, make sure the tuition fees compensate for all the other factors discussed above. By the way, some schools’ fees already include supplies and uniform, others even include food/snacks, which gives you less ‘things’ to worry about during the entire school year. So get that calculator and weigh your options well.

There. Choose the school that will provide your child the best education she/he deserves. Good luck on your hunt! :P

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Palawan Getaway!

Yesterday, Danny and I brought the girls to the airport (with my Dad, of course) for a three-week vacation in Palawan, because their yaya is having her vacation, whether we like it or not..hehe.

This is the first time the girls will be away from us for a long time (3 weeks, can you imagine?!) and days before their flight, we were missing them already! My only consolation is that the girls are very excited about this vacation because I promised them that my Mom and Dad will bring them to the beach and that there is a swimming pool (yung inflatable lang..hehe) at my parents' house and they can swim everyday! Of course, my Mom and Dad and my only sister are very excited, too!

Thank God, they had a safe flight! Here's how my 1st night without the girls went: Super dramatic! I cried (i know, OA, haha!) because it's just not the same without the girls. So this morning, I arrived at the office with puffy eyes, haha!

Anyway, I just called the girls and they are super having fun in Palawan! My Mom and Dad and my sister are also happy with the little girls running around the house, so enough with my kasentihan. Now, I am actually thinking of letting the girls visit my parents every summer - that way, the girls will develop a close relationship with my Mom and Dad, and Danny and I can also spend some quality time together, hmn... :D

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Two things happen when parents lose their temper with their children. One, they get really, really mad that they hurt their children's feelings. Two, they feel twice their children's pain, which is the worst feeling parents could ever have! Okay, I am not sure if this applies to all parents out there or sa 'kin lang, dahil super senti ako..hehe.

I remember one time I got so mad over Sofia's behavior, I shouted at her and she got so scared of me, the look on her face broke my heart. Then one time I was trying to ignore Tallulah and Sofia because they were fighting (and crying at the same time, imagine that!), Tallulah mumbled while she was crying, "You are not mommy.." and my heart was crushed. Drama 'no? Hehe.

When I am probably having PMS (yup, it's the only thing to blame, i guess..hehe), I sometimes lose my patience over my kids when they get so rowdy. When that happens, I tell them I am sorry (because I've also done something unacceptable) and then I go back to dealing with their misbehavior...in a calm manner.

Being a parent really requires a great deal of patience, and really, Danny and I feel so blessed to have Sofia and Tallulah, and so I pray that we will always be the best parents for them.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Just Another Disney Story

Here's Sofia's latest addiction - "The Little Mermaid: Ariel's Beginnings." She has watched it for several times already, and this afternoon, we watched the film again.

So there's this part where Ariel and her sisters are about to take their usual morning walk with King Triton, and I asked Sofia, "Are they going for a walk now?" She answered, "They're not walking. They don't have feet."

Oo nga naman.
:)


Sunday, January 25, 2009

The Magic Words

So Barney sings "'Please' and 'Thank You,' they're the magic words!" Tallulah couldn't care less, but Sofia knows the song by heart and whenever she fails to say 'please' or 'thank you,' I just tell her that she forgot to say the magic word/s and voila! Hmmn, so my investment in buying all those DVDs has paid off. :)

But let me share with you my conversation with Tallulah one night:

Tallulah: Mommy, I want milk!
Maan: Baby, you forgot to say the magic word...
Tallulah: Uhm..Mishka, Mushka, Mickey Mouse!
Maan: ?!

Apparently, Tallulah's a 'Mickey Mouse Clubhouse' fan! I think Barney and Mickey should do something about this! :D