Showing posts with label parenthood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenthood. Show all posts

Friday, December 4, 2009

Family Day

November 22 was Family Day at Sofia's school. Sofia and her classmates were required to wear 90's costume, hence, the plaid top/baby dress. I hope it looked 90's enough. :D The kids had a short (but very hoooot!) parade but the parents didn't mind the scorching heat and just kept clicking away with their cameras. :D

There were games and lots of activities for the kids to enjoy. The girls enjoyed the bump cars but we (the Dad and Mom) didn't. We were worried the whole time they were inside the 'track' because even though there were some guys assisting the kids, the girls and some other kids didn't know how to 'drive' and so they kept bumping the walls or each other's cars.

There was also the famous kalesa ride. I wonder why kids are so fascinated with horses...Anyway, I joined the kids and too bad, Danny was not able to take some decent photos of our kalesa experience. :D

Then there was the ceramic painting. This one Danny and I enjoyed because we were able to sit and rest for a while. :D Sofia's Pikachu was good enough. Tallulah's Winnie the Pooh was..uh..well..okaaay. :D

We went home tired (but happy, of course!) after six (6) hours of 'baby-sitting' two big girls, and with big tummies after having quesadillas and burritos and snowcones and hotdogs and ice monsters. :D

Monday, June 8, 2009

Becoming Role Models for our Children

Are you familiar with this saying? - "Kung ano ang ginagawa ng matatanda, sya ring gagawin ng mga bata" or something like that. Anyway, I saw the girls 'cleaning' the backyard this morning - No, I don't clean the backyard. :D It's the girls' Tito Thad who does the cleaning almost every day! So kids really do look up to us huh? Hmn, we better behave or else... :D

Friday, March 20, 2009

Children Learn What They Live

Let me share with you this beautiful poem I read over the internet, which I hope will serve as an inspiration to all parents out there raising their children to become "God-loving' individuals.

Children Learn What They Live
by Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph. D.

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.


Happy weekend, y'all! :)

Friday, March 13, 2009

The Preschool Hunt

This is what has kept me busy over the past few months – hunting, for preschool, that is. Sofia is now 4 years old and will start nursery this coming school year. I never imagined this whole school hunting thing would be so complicated, but I finally enrolled Sofia in my (and her) chosen school after considering several factors, which I have outlined below to somehow help parents out there who are also on the ‘hunt’:

Teaching Method

Traditional. Montessori. Progressive. Multiple Intelligences. Piagetian, etc. Yup, I went crazy over these teaching methods/programs or theories or whatever. Google each and choose the one that best suits your child’s needs. Each has its unique advantages, but the progressive approach and multiple intelligences theory appealed to me most.

Student-Teacher Ratio

Here’s what I learned: Schools which maintain a low student-teacher ratio (say, 10:1 or even lower) claim that each child’s unique needs are met because students are given individualized attention. On the other hand, schools which have an average of 25 students in a class with only 1 or 2 teacher/s claim that this volume of students is actually manageable and students are taught to be independent at an early age. Hmmn…

In either setting, make sure the teachers are patient, have good communication skills, are smart, and know how to handle kids, especially the ‘difficult’ ones.

Facilities

Here’s what we noticed in some schools we’ve visited during the ‘hunt’. Others have small or few facilities, say classrooms and just one (1) play area, but then maybe this is what your child would prefer for his/her first school - a school that has a ‘homey’ feel. One big school I visited has big playground, play laboratory, computer room (1:1), art room, and music room – you could imagine your child would be ‘moving’ a lot in this school and would have a lot of fun,…or your kid might get overwhelmed. Big school or little school, make sure your child will enjoy and have fun learning for at least 3 hours a day, 5 days a week – you wouldn’t want to make ‘learning’ boring for your child.

Curriculum

Math, Communication Arts, Computer Education, Music, Art, Play, etc. - depending on the teaching method/approach, these are the common subjects taught in preschools. When you enroll your child in a preschool and you intend to transfer him/her to your choice of big school for grade school, make sure the curriculum offered in the preschool is similar to that of your prospective big school. Better yet, some big schools already have their own preschools, so you might want to enroll them there already. One advantage of this is that your child usually does not have to take entrance exam anymore for grade school.

Tuition and other fees

I can’t believe that education now is so pricey, and I am only talking about preschool! For merely three (3) hours of classes a day, the tuition fees in preschools in Quezon City range from PhP40k to PhP80k! And don’t forget the 10% more or less annual increase! Nice! Well, whatever suits your budget, make sure the tuition fees compensate for all the other factors discussed above. By the way, some schools’ fees already include supplies and uniform, others even include food/snacks, which gives you less ‘things’ to worry about during the entire school year. So get that calculator and weigh your options well.

There. Choose the school that will provide your child the best education she/he deserves. Good luck on your hunt! :P

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Two things happen when parents lose their temper with their children. One, they get really, really mad that they hurt their children's feelings. Two, they feel twice their children's pain, which is the worst feeling parents could ever have! Okay, I am not sure if this applies to all parents out there or sa 'kin lang, dahil super senti ako..hehe.

I remember one time I got so mad over Sofia's behavior, I shouted at her and she got so scared of me, the look on her face broke my heart. Then one time I was trying to ignore Tallulah and Sofia because they were fighting (and crying at the same time, imagine that!), Tallulah mumbled while she was crying, "You are not mommy.." and my heart was crushed. Drama 'no? Hehe.

When I am probably having PMS (yup, it's the only thing to blame, i guess..hehe), I sometimes lose my patience over my kids when they get so rowdy. When that happens, I tell them I am sorry (because I've also done something unacceptable) and then I go back to dealing with their misbehavior...in a calm manner.

Being a parent really requires a great deal of patience, and really, Danny and I feel so blessed to have Sofia and Tallulah, and so I pray that we will always be the best parents for them.